September 06, 2017
This was written in early August of 2017 as a form of personal catharsis. I don’t know if I will publish it, if you’re reading then I obviously have done. (06-sep, dd, I pulled the trigger, meh)
To channel our good queen for a moment, 2016 is not a year I will remember with unrestrained joy.
Mostly because I just don’t remember it, it was that much of a blur.
Coming to the end of 2015, from the outside Simplicity Itself was doing well for itself. We had a few long term contracts, more being arranged. We were hiring and expanding our areas of expertise. It seemed good.
The weeks before Christmas was where things got interesting. In the space of a few days 2 projects shut down unexpectedly, with no notice and no ability to renegotiate. Our people were just off site and no longer earning. I had to ring around and make some people very unhappy just before Christmas.
At the same time (ie a couple of weeks before Christmas), my company co-founder informed me that he was leaving. Crazy ensued as I attempted to stabilise what was left of the company and see if we could survive in the new year. It never recovered, although I kept things going in a cut down form for another 9 months to attempt to give some sort of stability to our clients and staff where I could.
I was brought up in the cultural phenomenon that used to be known as "the protestant work ethic". Essentially that hard work is its own reward and that you can solve most problems by hitting them head on. So, I resolved at the time that I would spend the next year and get things fixed up and try to calmly shut things down when I had a handle on what to do next. These things happen, I’m not particularly remorseful of actions taken or regretful of the path not trodden.
What I hadn’t noticed was that in November, 2015, my weight had started to come down (after I had lost a bit of weight earlier in the year, don’t have street chai in Bangalore if you didn’t grow up there…). This didn’t even cross my mind as an issue. I 1convinced myself that I was suppressing my appetite by drinking more liquids, I even boasted about it at the time, some of you may recall. Slowly at first, but accelerating as the months went on, it was inexorable. I went from 16.5st in November to under 14st by June and eventually, a little under 12st at the end of 2016. Almost a quarter of my body weight without even trying.
Through the haze of non stop work, I didn’t notice that my energy levels were dropping, food was no longer satisfying, sleep harder to come by, sensation in my fingers and toes becoming less. Not nice things, but easy to explain away when you’re in a position where taking a day away from work causes immediate issues to a half dozen people.
It didn’t help that I actually felt fine in many ways. Apart from a compulsion to drink any and all liquid I went near (anything, the kids started complaining that I was finishing everything in the fridge), the amount of weight I’d lost meant that I moved more easily than before. I didn’t feel tired, I felt very bouncy, manic almost in hindsight. I even excused failing eyesight as "well, I’m 35 now, to be expected".
One day, my toe went numb and the feeling didn’t come back again. It spread the next day.
That’s an odd experience, and one that was quickly accompanies with the most bizarre sensation of cold water running down the inside of my lower legs. A quick read up online will tell you that this is caused by chronic nerve damage. Most commonly caused by nerves dying due to blood glucose toxicity, a sign of well advanced diabetes.
Of course, the only sensible course of action at that point is "balls, to the doctor!".
Balls, to the Doctor!
Just before I went to the doctor
I was urgently referred by my GP to the local clinic, put straight onto insulin with a spot insulin reading of 24 and an HBA1c reading of 15 (so I found out later). This is very unhealthy. The big concern at the time was something known as diabetic ketosis. This is where your body stops processing glucose (as had happened with me) and so begins to process body fat instead. This is the same process you undergo when you exercise hard for a long time, say in a marathon. You use up all of your free glucose and start processing your fat instead, the infamous "wall". Imagine that, but all the time. For type 1 diabetics, this is the big boogie man, and if you don’t catch it early, it will kill you. I was at the point where my body fat was almost all gone, if things had gone on another month I would have started to deconstruct my internal organs instead, leading to bad bad places. This is ketosis, and its fatal pretty quickly when it sets in. Its most common in type 1 diabetes, so the initial suspicion, when paired with such a high blood glucose reading, was that that was what was happening to me.
Come in now, this can’t wait
As quickly as I could, after chatting to the diabetic practice nurse at the clinic ("you need to come in here now!" not something you ignore!) I read up on what would help and tried to do it all. This covered food, exercise, supplements (eating a spoon of cider vinegar with a powdered cinnamon chaser is totally an experience you should try! Let me know how it goes)
6 months later, I’m feeling like I’ve "recovered", for the most part. I don’t have any long term complications, my eyesight is fine (if I don’t recognise you and I met you a few months ago, its because you look different now!). I’ve got some on going nerve damage in my feet and lower legs, which is slowly recovering. Nerves growing back, where they do, is remarkably uncomfortable. Numb toes are actually quite comfy, apart from the risk of unknown injuries. Half healed nerves hurt like hell, I wear crocks/ slippers all the time now because stubbing my toes has become an object lesson in agony.
Diabetes can be a vicious disease, and is not something you want to get it. As it turns out, its fairly likely I don’t have Type 1. The diagnostic tests that seem to be available can confirm or exclude type 1, with the result if you are excluded being that you essentially have one of the grab bag of diseases known as Type 2 Diabetes. As I’ve learned, this is mostly a descriptive term of the symptoms, rather than describing a disease based upon its cause. Type 2 is in many ways more manageable than Type 1 is, which can get very hard to keep on a level. I’m not sure why mine came on so vicious, it may have partly been my lifestyle as it came on.
As I have addressed in many a conference talk, I like to approach things in a fairly circumspect and philosophical way. I’m a great believer in a Stoic approach to life. That can be summarised as "minimise the bad, take advantage of the good". It is caricatured as being miserable, but I find actually it is a far healthier way to live and has led me to being able to take great joy in things that I otherwise might not have done.
What I can see with the way things are is that I now have to eat healthily, and exercise. My decision making process is utterly changed by the perpetual state I now inhabit of potentially ill. If I want to have a normal lifespan, I have a very straightforward set of choices to make.
I’m not sick, I don’t look sick and I don’t have any medical complaints beyond this (apart from occasionally gently weeping about a stubbed toe). Its been an interesting position to be in, and one that I have, if not enjoyed, then at the least I appreciate the sensation of being able to make a positive choice to take the good of the situation and in as many ways as I can to frame it as a positive experience. Looking as objectively as I can at the way I live life, I live it better now, and that’s got to be a good thing, no matter the reason for that.
Big changes in lifestyle that have made the biggest impact :-
Stop eating breakfast. Milk is full of sugar, cereals are pure starch. As I have discovered, your liver, being the main store of Glycogen which is the short term energy storage chemical, will dump a big whack of energy into your blood stream soon after you wake up normally. Having breakfast very soon after I wake up is unnecessary, so I don’t eat it. Instead, black coffee first thing and then eat between 11 to 1pm depending on my mood. Good tip from Tareq Abeddrabbo, notable runner and wearer of a beard (I still don’t know what he does to earn a living, can you earn from a beard?).
Stop daily eating of bread, potato, pasta and the like. Its not poison, I eat it, but the less I eat on average, the better things are. The way it was expressed to me was that my body has now become intolerant of carbohydrates, and the less I have, the easier it is for my body to deal with whats left.
Exercise, some aerobic, a bunch of weight and strength training. The former helps for immediate sugar control, the latter for longer term, so it appears for me.
Sleep! Bad sleep causes issues.
Work less. I’m working far less, taking weeks off from paid work (all of august I was off paid work). This keeps me more at home, which helps my diet a lot more.
Booze, wine is better than most beers. A small glass causes my sugar to go up, subsequent glasses cause it to go down. Apparently alcohol interferes with the way your liver processes glycogen with the result that alcohol can cause blood sugar to go down. I can’t confirm this is generally applicable, but I can confirm that I’ve tested this a whole bunch of times and its true every time.
Talking to people is a positive. Hiding things isn’t healthy and giving people the option of doing something to help me, and then being appreciative of that and avoiding frustration that its even necessary is something I learned as well as I can from my wife, who is a far stronger person than I am.
All things taste better with one of bacon, melted cheese or cream. Combinations are allowed.
as often as I can say it that people will listen
I’ve managed to keep my love of dairy (cream is not milk and contains no sugar). Sugar free jelly+cream is my dessert of choice when I’m not in the mood to go for a run after eating it.
So, overall, things are good. I’m happy with the way that 2017 is turning out. What a difference a year makes!
Next article will be on Reactive APIs, for you tech heads.